Gaming

I believe that most of the girls don't like boys or their boyfriend to play on-line game such as Dota 2, LOL, HON, or other on-line games. They always stop their boyfriend from playing these type of game. This is because they think when a boy play on-line game, he is not a good man. Boys who play game will not have time to accompany their girlfriend to chat, hanging out . These are from the perspective of girls. How about boys?

We don't like people to stop us from gaming. Its a kind of activity and this is what we do when we have our free time. Why girls stop us from playing on-line games? Girls like shopping too, but why boys didn't stop them to shop? Gaming is the way we relieve our stress and shopping is the way girls relieve stress.

Now I'm going to talk about myself. I started to gaming since I enter foundation. A friend of mine taught me this. I think it is fun and it is a kind of activity for me to relieve stress. As long as we didn't addicted to it, its quite a good  activity for us to relieve stress. I did not get addicted to paying games. I only play when I'm free. 

According to professional researcher, they find out that gaming actually have many benefits. First, it can relive our stress. Secondly, it can help people to build up confident in themselves through game. Thirdly, gaming can train our mind to be fast. When we got in a situation, we can react faster. Apart from that, game can enhance people's social skill to communicate with others. Games teach players problem solving, motivation, and cognitive skills. Most games inspire players to strive and reach more difficult levels presenting challenges at each stage.

Everything have its pros and cons, gaming too. If you control yourself well and don't addict to it, it is a good way to improve yourself.

Let it go !

“If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.” ~Ajahn Chah

Recently, I have been through a lots of problems and awkward situation. I lost someone that I care a lot. From these, I have learn a lot. The most important one is we have to learn to let go of something that do not belong to us. But why is it so difficult to let go? Why is it so hard to give up a bad habit or an ex-lover? The truth is that most of us suffer from a feeling of inner emptiness that we are trying to fill up with our various attachments - often without much success.

Someone told me this before. " If you want something or anyone, first you have to learn to let it go. If it belongs to you, eventually it will come back to you." He inspire me a lot. He teach me how to let go of something when it do not belong to you anymore.

Why let go if the thing is important to you? Why let go when a person is important to you? Well, the only reason I get for myself is if you force yourself to not let go, it will hurt only yourself. Do not ever scare to let go of something. Be brave. Letting someone and something to go is a kind of braveness. It shows that you are brave enough to put down the past and move on in your life which can make you more mature. Part of letting go and moving on is facing the fears and disappointments of the past that are binding your spirit. Let go and get a better life.

Creativity ?

What is creativity? How to be more creative? Why should I be creative? When should I be creative?
When your boss or lecturer ask you to be creative in your work and assignments, most people will ask these questions. Me too. I always wonder lecturer ask us to be more creative, but they never taught us or tell us the way to be creative. " Think out of the box ", I can understand this but the problem is HOW?

There are six phase in the creativity process.

The Creative Process has six phases… Inspiration:    research and generate many ideas Clarification:  focus on your goals Evaluation:    review your work and learn from it Distillation:    decide which of your ideas to work on Incubation:    leave the work alone Perspiration:  work determinedly on your best ideas To be creative, you cant skip any step above, you have to follow the steps and you can be creative. I haven try it yet but I will try it in future. :) For me, when I have to be creative, I will just follow my heart and do whatever I can think of. That's the way for me to be creative. I should change my way to be creative so that i can be more creative and really understand the meaning of " think out of the box". To be creative, you have to brave enough to think. Don't think about the idea will work or not, and think vertically. We as human, were taught to think horizontally since we were kids. For example, people always think that we cant use badminton racket to play ping pong. But why? this is because we were taught so. To be creative, we have to be deviant, do things out of the norms. “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life's coming attractions.” ― Albert Einstein http://www.greenfields.u-net.com/docs/

Colourful Life

I always imagine I have a colourful life.
Enjoying the sun rise with a cup of coffee, feel the "scratch" of wind on my face with the one I love, watching the sun "disappear" between mountain , watching fish swimming in the crystal clear pond , listening to the birds' "song" , cycling around and talk to people and many many more. But its just in my imaginary land. Nowadays, people rush for everything, work, studies, meeting. Have you ever slow down and take a look around you? there are many wonderful things around us.

One day when I was walking to uni to attend class, I walk slowly and I realise there are so many wonderful things will happen around you. All you need to do is slow down and observe. For me, wonderful things is when people help each others, driver tolerate on the road, car driver stop the car and let people cross the busy road, people help the poor one , enjoying my lunch without rush, and many more. 

I realise that people always do not appreciate what they have in their life. They find out their life is not good and not the life they wanted. Actually, everyone's life is wonderful. All you need to do is slow down and feel it, and you will see the world in a different way.

I don't need that much to live - we don't need that much to have a wonderful life. I learned that from animals.

-Carrie Ann Inaba

Boundaryless Love

Love can be expressed in many way.  Love does not just means love between couple. There are many type of love, love between family, love between friends, love between couple, love between you and your pets, love between your favourite game and you and many many more type of love.

Among all of these LOVES , which love is boundary less love? It actually depends on how you define boundary less love. For me, the first is the family love ! Family always was the one who support you and help you , stay by your side.  People always said that blood is concentrated than water, which is true compare with their density.But the main point is nothing can compared to blood-related family. 

The second is the love between me and my religion. It always give me hope and make me feel energetic to continue and having faith on what am I doing. It always teach me not to lose hope in everything. Apart from that, I can always feel the love that god gave us ( the pure love ). God always love us because we are God's so called "Sons" and "Daughters".God created us and he will not give up on us. Whatever bad things happens, there always will be a way for us to face the problem. I love God because he gave me everything and I will always hold my faith.

The third is the love of me towards my friends. I always love my friends becaue they makes my life become wonderful and meaningful. Without friends, I will always be alone and i hate to be alone. Imagine your life without friends. That would be pathetic, you will go shopping alone, playing basketball alone, watch movie alone, eat alone. Maybe somebody else can do it but its a NO for me.

There are many others type of love in our life. And there is much more boundary less love in my life too. I will always appreciate the love given by people around me and give out more boundary less love to people. LOVE is not a word, don't talk,  ACT. Show it to the one you appreciate before you regret. :)

Always and Forever

" The Original" ( drama that talk about original vampires families )

In this drama , the vampires always talk about families. For them, family is power. The Original Vampire family swore it to each other a thousand years ago. They pledged to remain together, always and forever. This drama really give me some inspiration that family is very important for us. No wonder what happen, family always will stay by your side to help you. When you done anything wrong, they will forgive you and help you to clean up the mess you have made.

Family is not just family for me. It means a lot for me because every time they are the one who help me, support me and giving me love. It is family members who comes to rescue me in the need of hour and stand by me when I feel lonely. They give me mental as well as financial support. Friends will come and go but family will always be there. Families are like the lasting friends. They teach us to have relationships with other people, how to love, how to get along, how to share.

Family is always an important part of my life. Without family, I will not be here studying and writing my blog.

Always and forever means no wonder what happen , family will always stay by your side to help even though you argue with them. Family will always forgive your mistake and correct you.

So, take good care of your families and stay forever with them.

Mistake

Mistake : an action or judgement that is misguided or wrong.

People make mistake. And mistakes usually cause some degree of pain, loss or struggle. There are no one in this world who never make a single mistake.When we hear that someone apologized for his mistake, our instinctive reaction is to want to forgive. We probably wouldn't react the same way.

I admit that I have make a lots of mistake since the day I born. To me, mistake is like when you want to bake a cake and you forget to put in baking powder or when you forget to finish your assignment and you have to pass it up on that day. What happen when we make mistake? We apology. Apology for our carelessness, apology for our  incautious, apology for our inattentive. 

Since I was a kid, I make a lots of mistake. I forget to pass up my homework, I hit my friend, I scold people, I did bad in my exam. But after that, I apology. We were taught to apology when we make mistakes since small. But why nowadays people don't apologize for mistake that they have done? People rob, snatch, bully, hurt and they don't apology. Sorry seems to be the hardest word in the world. 

Personally, I don't refuse to say sorry when I make mistakes. I think saying sorry whenever you make mistakes or you don't can restore relationships. After a fight and before forgiveness often comes an apology. But saying “I’m sorry” comes more easily for some people than it does for others. 

So, Go ahead and say sorry. Don't feel shy for doing this act. Making mistakes and saying sorry is not an humiliation. Everyone learn from mistakes. Without mistakes, we can't learn. 

“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”
― Albert Einstein