Let it go !

“If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.” ~Ajahn Chah

Recently, I have been through a lots of problems and awkward situation. I lost someone that I care a lot. From these, I have learn a lot. The most important one is we have to learn to let go of something that do not belong to us. But why is it so difficult to let go? Why is it so hard to give up a bad habit or an ex-lover? The truth is that most of us suffer from a feeling of inner emptiness that we are trying to fill up with our various attachments - often without much success.

Someone told me this before. " If you want something or anyone, first you have to learn to let it go. If it belongs to you, eventually it will come back to you." He inspire me a lot. He teach me how to let go of something when it do not belong to you anymore.

Why let go if the thing is important to you? Why let go when a person is important to you? Well, the only reason I get for myself is if you force yourself to not let go, it will hurt only yourself. Do not ever scare to let go of something. Be brave. Letting someone and something to go is a kind of braveness. It shows that you are brave enough to put down the past and move on in your life which can make you more mature. Part of letting go and moving on is facing the fears and disappointments of the past that are binding your spirit. Let go and get a better life.